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Moving-on 365 days in NYC’s subway trains & Staten Island’s ferry, too!

In NYC, train trips, trains, travel, Uncategorized on March 29, 2011 at 6:15 pm
Staten Island Ferry, 1990 - New York City, New...

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Moving-on 365 days in NYC’s subway trains & Staten Island‘s ferry, too! You will seldom meet someone who lives in NYC who has not taken the subway at all. But you may probably meet some who have not taken the Staten Island ferry boat.  This ferry boat’s the alternative to getting a grand view of Lady Liberty on her island.

Taking the subway is part of New Yorker’s daily life, practically. it’s the most convenient, though not exactly always reliable transportation method in NYC. The MTA (the agency that runs the system) always does its repair and construction works during weekends and evenings so keep in mind that the schedule can be spotty at most on these periods. The train rides offer you a different view of how other people live in NYC. Each rider has a story to tell whenever [s]he takes a ride in the system.  Taking and riding the system is a very egalitarian experience, which is a concept that’s so strange in societies where you will see subtle and loud ways that attempt to always separate social classes due to economic reasons.  All you need is enough cash to get into the system and you can reach your destinations (most times!) in due time. Just look at it as an adventure – you’ll see faces of humanity that you never thought are there for you to explore. You’ll meet workers, students, religious people, professionals, homeless, the poor, smelly persons, the stylish and snotty ones, the politicians, artists, musicians, foreigners, dancers, tourists, writers, businesspeople, among so many others (including a few animals – the pets – of the passengers). Just by observing them , you’ll see commonalities from among them that you probably possess. And you’ll be surprised by a lot of scenes that take place while being in the subway. Just open you eyes and ears.

http://ow.ly/4oRIP

gothic in fashion, a fascinating exhibit

In Uncategorized on March 29, 2011 at 5:45 pm

gothic in fashion, a fascinating exhibit at NYC’s FIT http://ow.ly/4oR4N

Gustave Courbet: ‘when i’m no longer c

In Uncategorized on March 28, 2011 at 6:15 pm

Gustave Courbet: ‘when i’m no longer controversial, i will no longer be important’ http://ow.ly/4nZfR

a guide to parking in new york city http

In Uncategorized on March 25, 2011 at 5:45 pm

a guide to parking in new york city http://ow.ly/4mt0V

blog: some Philippine travel tips http:/

In Uncategorized on March 24, 2011 at 1:55 pm

blog: some Philippine travel tips http://ow.ly/4luva

On a Pinoy Trans-sexual in New York City

In Filipino communities in NYC, Filipinos in NYC, take it as it is on March 23, 2011 at 5:15 pm
When You Get Caught Between the Moon and New Y...

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In this blog posting, I’ve talked about someone I’ve met on many occasions in New York City. I meant to write about her months ago when I showed up in her birthday party but I soon lost the motivation to do so. It’s one of those parties that I believe some people ought to hear about as it’s very edgy and has been orchestrated just like a big show jammed inside a very crowded tiny room that’s so common in New York City (the clautrophobics among us would surely have instant fits!). I just had to wait for the next meaningful opportunity to write about what she’s been doing, which came recently.  In NYC, she’s had been working on transforming herself from who she was in her former life in the Philippines – another common friend told me about her when she was still a “man’ back in her Mother country. She’s from one of the big cities in southern Philippines. I’d prefer that she remains anonymous here as I didn’t tell her that I’d be writing about her – she may end up not talking with me anymore or maybe I really don’t know her that well even though we’ve seen each other many times and we share a lot of common friends. In terms of physical looks, she can easily out-do all others in her league as well as other women who show up along her way. I’ll reserve judgment if she’s being smart with the strategies she’s pursued – that’s simply her choice as she sees it fit according to what the most loving Lord shows her. Also, I admire the attitude of all the other common friends I share with her as they’re not behaving like they’re being judgmental on what’s she’s been doing and making them understand what’s she’s into these days. They all admire and rave on her for her intelligence, gutsy-ness and business sense (there are lots of Filipinos in NYC who’ve done well who are not talked about in most papers, which topic will be written about here as the right opportunity comes along).  She’s known to have been earning much money and doing a lot of investing back in her Mother country.

In this occasion, we saw each other again in a birthday party, where she came late.  Again, I just wonder why she had to be over-doing herself that night, which really caught me off-handed.  Maybe she trusts me that much, and she’s being comfortable with me. Maybe she’s in a way trying to make me think about my situation as I also wear long hair like her. I’m just so amused just writing about this. We never really know how things will turn out to be. I didn’t think she’d do what she did during this party which was relatively sedated compared with the parties she’d usually host. Read about it in this link: http://ow.ly/4kRqC

Tips for saving money when you’re unemployed

In advocacy, awareness, being tactical, career tips, tips on March 17, 2011 at 3:01 pm
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Being unemployed does not also mean you can not save some more cash, although this will certainly make your situation more challenging. You can always make a choice, whether to actively save your cash or go on splurging whatever you still have saved. Just be in charge with the directions of your life more than ever this time.

Tips for saving money when you’re unemployed – http://ow.ly/4foGW

Travel destinations: Ilocos Sur, Philippines

In philippines, tips, travel, Uncategorized on March 17, 2011 at 1:30 am
The Ilocos Sur Provincial Capitol in Vigan.

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Ilocos Sur in the Philippines remains to be among the country’s most interesting top travel destinations despite negative news from certain people who are best ignored for being irresponsible. Local people speak Ilocano as well as English with a cute accent, generally have that great sexy brown skin, are friendly, have a fascinating un-fuzzy cuisine that makes use of abundant food supplies found in the region (‘you have to try their vegetable-based meals!’), and show how attached and grounded they are with their roots.  You can do so much in terms of choices as you spend your limited precious travel time here – go visit the beach, do local culture trips, engage in hiking, do hispanic-period church visits, know more about their tobacco industry, explore and get to know the local communities where families have lived and pursued their lives for many generations, among others. Yes, make sure you include Ilocos Sur in your itinerary in your next Philippine visit.

“Travel destinations: Ilocos Sur, Philippines” – http://ow.ly/4foGv

A guide on how and where to get yoga instructor certification in New York

In NYC, tips on March 17, 2011 at 1:00 am
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Yes, yoga teachers also get themselves certified. Here’s a brief list with descriptions on where those interested can get themselves start the process of certification in New York. This has been culled from sources where yogis have been going to whenever they need to do yoga asanas with others around.

“A guide on how and where to get yoga instructor certification in New York” - http://ow.ly/4foGu

Travel destinations: Palawan, Philippine

In Uncategorized on March 17, 2011 at 12:30 am

Travel destinations: Palawan, Philippines – http://ow.ly/4foGt

How to control your drinking habit – htt

In Uncategorized on March 17, 2011 at 12:00 am

How to control your drinking habit – http://ow.ly/4foGs

Store reviews: D’Agostino’s supermarke

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 11:30 pm

Store reviews: D’Agostino’s supermarket – http://ow.ly/4foGr

How to clean area rugs – http://ow.ly/4f

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 10:30 pm

How to clean area rugs – http://ow.ly/4foGp

Travel destinations: Vigan, Philippines

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 10:00 pm

Travel destinations: Vigan, Philippines – http://ow.ly/4foGo

Leap of faith: When quitting your job is the best move for your career

In business, moving on, tips, Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 9:30 pm
Take the Leap!

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Leap of faith: When quitting your job is the best move for your career – http://ow.ly/4foGn

Notes on the link above:

For those who are married with children or those with family obligations, taking the leap to quit their jobs to do those works that they prefer to be doing in the first place IS REALLY GOING TO BE A TOUGH SITUATION FOR THEMSELVES TO GET INTO.  Looking back, I was more than blessed to have been able to afford to quit my long term job and move on to a career as a full-time small business owner doing writing works and growing an online store (for books, magazines, CDs, DVDs). I don’t lack people around me who always express their utter disbelief over my decision to give up a career doing HR & Admin Works and push the start button again in my career here in the US. In fact, even some of my friends from my Friday evening prayer meeting group, people who are supposed to be people-of-faith, express surprise and amusement over how I manage to run small businesses here in the US when they mostly see Filipino-Americans here who are employed full time and would shun the idea of putting up businesses. I can’t blame them – really, to each his own.

At least these days, I’ve known and have been meeting real-honest-to-goodness people whose intentions when they meet up with me are not to just to turn me into a mere and unwilling stepping stone to further their careers. I can always help people, but nowadays, most of them shy away from me because they’re aware I’ve no regular income drawn from salaries. I make my own money, save and invest them, and grow my business.

Quitting your job now without offering any clear plans to others around you can indeed be a foolish move. Actually, don’t even try to explain unless they pay you at least $20 for your time to explain to them your decision. At least, if they pay, you’ll earn somehow. It’s high time that you charge others for your time at your own terms. If they refuse, then continue keeping your position and move on to something more significant.

But if you’ve got children or other dependents, MAKE SURE you meet up with them at least 6 months before you quit your job. Ask for inputs from them, and come up with a strategy, which will make them involved and probably come up with better solutions for everyone to be happy and not just be turned into people who are always expected to shell out money come spending time. You’re in a way helping your children and dependents to become reliable and capable in figuring out what they need to do to overcome material challenges of everyday living. Come to think of it, most of what you need in life boil down to having the strength and courage to face life every moment as it happens now.

Travel experiences: Hong Kong – http://o

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 9:00 pm

Travel experiences: Hong Kong – http://ow.ly/4foGm

How to gain freedom from depression – ht

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 7:30 pm

How to gain freedom from depression – http://ow.ly/4foGj

Drawbacks of using a headhunter when loo

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 7:00 pm

Drawbacks of using a headhunter when looking for a job – http://ow.ly/4foGi

Top travel destinations in the Philippin

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 6:30 pm

Top travel destinations in the Philippines – http://ow.ly/4foGh

Franchise information on Blimpie – http:

In Uncategorized on March 16, 2011 at 6:01 pm

Franchise information on Blimpie – http://ow.ly/4foGg

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