In this blog posting, I’ve talked about someone I’ve met on many occasions in New York City. I meant to write about her months ago when I showed up in her birthday party but I soon lost the motivation to do so. It’s one of those parties that I believe some people ought to hear about as it’s very edgy and has been orchestrated just like a big show jammed inside a very crowded tiny room that’s so common in New York City (the clautrophobics among us would surely have instant fits!). I just had to wait for the next meaningful opportunity to write about what she’s been doing, which came recently. In NYC, she’s had been working on transforming herself from who she was in her former life in the Philippines – another common friend told me about her when she was still a “man’ back in her Mother country. She’s from one of the big cities in southern Philippines. I’d prefer that she remains anonymous here as I didn’t tell her that I’d be writing about her – she may end up not talking with me anymore or maybe I really don’t know her that well even though we’ve seen each other many times and we share a lot of common friends. In terms of physical looks, she can easily out-do all others in her league as well as other women who show up along her way. I’ll reserve judgment if she’s being smart with the strategies she’s pursued – that’s simply her choice as she sees it fit according to what the most loving Lord shows her. Also, I admire the attitude of all the other common friends I share with her as they’re not behaving like they’re being judgmental on what’s she’s been doing and making them understand what’s she’s into these days. They all admire and rave on her for her intelligence, gutsy-ness and business sense (there are lots of Filipinos in NYC who’ve done well who are not talked about in most papers, which topic will be written about here as the right opportunity comes along). She’s known to have been earning much money and doing a lot of investing back in her Mother country.
In this occasion, we saw each other again in a birthday party, where she came late. Again, I just wonder why she had to be over-doing herself that night, which really caught me off-handed. Maybe she trusts me that much, and she’s being comfortable with me. Maybe she’s in a way trying to make me think about my situation as I also wear long hair like her. I’m just so amused just writing about this. We never really know how things will turn out to be. I didn’t think she’d do what she did during this party which was relatively sedated compared with the parties she’d usually host. Read about it in this link: http://ow.ly/4kRqC
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