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Stapleton, Staten Island

In take it as it is, tips, travel, Uncategorized on August 5, 2011 at 5:30 am
Tappen Park in Stapleton, Staten Island

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Stapleton, Staten Island http://ow.ly/5VHQt

This is the neighborhood where I currently live & I’m happy of being in Staten Island! We’re closer to the St. George Ferry Terminal, which allows us 45 minutes commuting time to downtown Manhattan. This neighborhood has lots of businesses that are run by the owners themselves; most of the owners live in the same neighborhood. It’s got fascinating character, history, lots of people of different races, and a cool mix of the suburb and the city found in its old streets.

Travel time spent on commuting can be a challenge for some; you can take the train, the bus or take a walk to the ferry terminal. Or you can take the express buses to Manhattan, which is costlier. Or you can drive your car and pay extra for having such. But no matter what your choice in doing your daily travels, the time you spent on coming back home after a day’s work can be worth it; the community is progressive and a pleasant place to live in (depending on your personal requirements).

Stapleton in Staten Island, among Daily News’ Best Places to Live in NY

In nuggets of wisdom, NYC, people you meet in life on May 16, 2011 at 6:45 pm
Stapleton (Staten Island Railway station) sign

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Stapleton in Staten Island, among Daily News‘ Best Places to Live in NY http://ow.ly/4VOlH

Notes on the link above:

Stapleton is an old neighborhood in Staten Island, which happened to be in a borough most NYC people would rather not consider visiting for one reason or another. But I know they’re missing a lot – I used to have the same attitude until I got the opportunity to live here. I would have chosen to live in St. George, which is the closest neighborhood to the ferry terminal that’s a 30-minute ride away from Downtown Manhattan, but Stapleton beckoned. This neighborhood’s the second stop of the Staten Island Railway (our subway here, which is still a solitary line until perhaps NYC government decides to open the line along the north shore that faces New Jersey).

I’ve since then learned a lot about this neighborhood that even has a book written on it {Images of America: Stapleton}, which I bought even it’s over $20 as I felt so proud of living in this neighborhood. It’s fascinating to check and discover a lot of the houses pictured in the book that are still standing. As the Daily News has reported on it, Stapleton is where prospective real estate buyers may get to purchase their next properties if they know what they’re doing.

It’s an interesting neighborhood that deserves a look-see trip from all curious and adventurous visitors of NYC. Part of it is called ‘Stapleton Heights‘, which I think is a way to differentiate it from the housing projects that have been built in the same neighborhood in the 60s and which some residents have been giving it a bad name. They don’t know that they ought to be proud to have well-maintained, nice looking really old houses here that are lived in by single or dual families. But should I even be bothered by all these pettiness? I know a lot of NYC’s neighborhoods, even in Manhattan’s highly desirable neighborhoods (e.g. East Village, Upper East Side), that have lots of housing projects, too (and I’m talking from experience as I personally know people who live in these so-called housing projects). For now, I’m happy I’m here and able to lead an interesting life of a creative person who owns and runs his small business here; I live in a century old house where my bedroom’s at least 4 times bigger than the last room I had in Chinatown‘s East Broadway. Of course, amenities are not comparable with those found in most NYC’s neighborhood but just the same, the quality of my life here is better. I’ve been here for 2 winters now and I plan to stay as long as I am able to do so.

My Manhattan Pied-A-Terre

In getting a life, take it as it is, Uncategorized on May 11, 2011 at 8:45 pm

My Manhattan Pied-A-Terre 

Notes on the link above:

You may have been trying to open a dead link previously, so I edited this posting now, which I hope will be helpful in your reading experience. The original posting is found in my blogger.com account, which I still keep for practical purposes. The posting’s about my tiny space that I kept in Chinatown along East Broadway that’s a few steps away from the East Broadway stop of the ‘F’ train before it crosses to Brooklyn. It’s in a tenement of an existence that you must have read or heard about in old movies or pictures depicting the East Side of Manhattan as ridden with squatters.

Honestly, I’m not bothered at all with the idea of having lived in such environmental conditions – I’ve seen worst conditions in many more places (in terms of material wealth and/or the lack of spiritual wealth in posh-looking surroundings) and I don’t take it against anyone who will think otherwise.

My pied-a-terre‘s a private one where I had my own tiny room in a converted space made to accommodate at least 5 people, with at least 2 of them working full time stay-in-jobs in other parts of the city. Most days, I’d be left by myself with another boarder who would be doing part-time service oriented jobs. She was from Malaysia and who’s ethnically Chinese. It’s a strange experience, so to speak, sharing all these common-sounding immigrant experiences with other Asians who were helpful to and curious about me, too. I got the space mainly on the strength of recommendation of another friend who’s Malaysian himself. The space’s very convenient to public transportation and very close to hip places in the East Village, West Village, Alphabet City, Soho,  and practically downtown Manhattan. Food’s abundant and very affordable but my living quarters were chaotic yet fun looking. You gotta have to be possessed with more than enough confidence to endure living in these types of quarters. But then again, you will soon realize there are always others who live in worst conditions than what you have.

Anything you may want me to share and discuss here about this place? Give some feedback and I may just go about sharing more. I’ve read some recent articles on how people go about their living quarters in this side of Chinatown in Manhattan from the New York Times – and I could only just reminisce. I’m always surprised as to how certain writers (or journalists) tend to focus and highlight on what’s obvious – I think most of them don’t dig that deep enough to know more about the many facets of truths on how it is to make a meaningful living here in Manhattan. In any case, ‘Thanks a lot!’

Moving-on 365 days in NYC’s subway trains & Staten Island’s ferry, too!

In NYC, train trips, trains, travel, Uncategorized on March 29, 2011 at 6:15 pm
Staten Island Ferry, 1990 - New York City, New...

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Moving-on 365 days in NYC’s subway trains & Staten Island‘s ferry, too! You will seldom meet someone who lives in NYC who has not taken the subway at all. But you may probably meet some who have not taken the Staten Island ferry boat.  This ferry boat’s the alternative to getting a grand view of Lady Liberty on her island.

Taking the subway is part of New Yorker’s daily life, practically. it’s the most convenient, though not exactly always reliable transportation method in NYC. The MTA (the agency that runs the system) always does its repair and construction works during weekends and evenings so keep in mind that the schedule can be spotty at most on these periods. The train rides offer you a different view of how other people live in NYC. Each rider has a story to tell whenever [s]he takes a ride in the system.  Taking and riding the system is a very egalitarian experience, which is a concept that’s so strange in societies where you will see subtle and loud ways that attempt to always separate social classes due to economic reasons.  All you need is enough cash to get into the system and you can reach your destinations (most times!) in due time. Just look at it as an adventure – you’ll see faces of humanity that you never thought are there for you to explore. You’ll meet workers, students, religious people, professionals, homeless, the poor, smelly persons, the stylish and snotty ones, the politicians, artists, musicians, foreigners, dancers, tourists, writers, businesspeople, among so many others (including a few animals – the pets – of the passengers). Just by observing them , you’ll see commonalities from among them that you probably possess. And you’ll be surprised by a lot of scenes that take place while being in the subway. Just open you eyes and ears.

http://ow.ly/4oRIP

On a Pinoy Trans-sexual in New York City

In Filipino communities in NYC, Filipinos in NYC, take it as it is on March 23, 2011 at 5:15 pm
When You Get Caught Between the Moon and New Y...

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In this blog posting, I’ve talked about someone I’ve met on many occasions in New York City. I meant to write about her months ago when I showed up in her birthday party but I soon lost the motivation to do so. It’s one of those parties that I believe some people ought to hear about as it’s very edgy and has been orchestrated just like a big show jammed inside a very crowded tiny room that’s so common in New York City (the clautrophobics among us would surely have instant fits!). I just had to wait for the next meaningful opportunity to write about what she’s been doing, which came recently.  In NYC, she’s had been working on transforming herself from who she was in her former life in the Philippines – another common friend told me about her when she was still a “man’ back in her Mother country. She’s from one of the big cities in southern Philippines. I’d prefer that she remains anonymous here as I didn’t tell her that I’d be writing about her – she may end up not talking with me anymore or maybe I really don’t know her that well even though we’ve seen each other many times and we share a lot of common friends. In terms of physical looks, she can easily out-do all others in her league as well as other women who show up along her way. I’ll reserve judgment if she’s being smart with the strategies she’s pursued – that’s simply her choice as she sees it fit according to what the most loving Lord shows her. Also, I admire the attitude of all the other common friends I share with her as they’re not behaving like they’re being judgmental on what’s she’s been doing and making them understand what’s she’s into these days. They all admire and rave on her for her intelligence, gutsy-ness and business sense (there are lots of Filipinos in NYC who’ve done well who are not talked about in most papers, which topic will be written about here as the right opportunity comes along).  She’s known to have been earning much money and doing a lot of investing back in her Mother country.

In this occasion, we saw each other again in a birthday party, where she came late.  Again, I just wonder why she had to be over-doing herself that night, which really caught me off-handed.  Maybe she trusts me that much, and she’s being comfortable with me. Maybe she’s in a way trying to make me think about my situation as I also wear long hair like her. I’m just so amused just writing about this. We never really know how things will turn out to be. I didn’t think she’d do what she did during this party which was relatively sedated compared with the parties she’d usually host. Read about it in this link: http://ow.ly/4kRqC

A visitor’s guide to Staten Island

In advocacy, NYU, Uncategorized on March 4, 2011 at 9:30 pm
Staten Island

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A visitor’s guide to Staten Islandhttp://ow.ly/47GwV

After reading the article found in the link above, you may get to become more curious on what else can you do if you decide to visit Staten Island here in New York City. Don’t head off just yet to the ferry back to Manhattan. For starters, you can decide to take a walk from St. George Ferry Terminal for the next 20 minutes in whatever direction you feel like following. Check the 9/11 Memorial that’s set-up on the Esplanade somewhere outside the eastside of the Ferry Terminal. You will also be led to what the St. George neighborhood has in store for its residents as well as its curious visitors. This is the same neighborhood that has hosted the early creative lives of celebrities including Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward and Martin Sheen.

1) If you judge it to be nice day for you to walk, head off to the Borough Hall of Staten Island as well as the Museum of Staten Island (‘SI Museum’ as it is written on the building somewhere on the right side if you’re fronting the Borough Hall.

2) Check Snug Harbor, which is a must-see destination for all non NYC residents who are fond of old buildings that have been re-used for more modern purposes. It used to be a residential community for retired sailors decades ago, and has since been offering surprises to those who are curious enough to know more about Staten Island’s offerings.

3) Take the Staten Island train up to Tottenville, which is at least 30 minutes.  From this station, you’ll get a view of the Outerbridge Crossing, which has been featured in a number of movies. Earlier, there’s also the Verrazano Bridge that you can view from the train, which may probably make you think of exploring on another occasion. You’ll be seeing how sub-urban looking Staten Island can be, which will probably remind you of your own place back home.  On certain parts of SI, you’ll also see that the island’s closer to New Jersey than NYC. Residents often wonder why this fact is not being harnessed more aggressively to bring in more business and development to Staten Island.

4) There are beach walks in Staten Island that you can visit and spend your time in for the next 2 or 4 hours.  They include South Beach and Midland Beach, both of which can be reached by the S51 bus that usually waits for passengers of the ferry before completing its route at the other parts of SI.  The shore actually forms part of the very long shore that passes by the Jersey Shore and in turn goes south all the way to Florida and beyond.

Visit Staten Island in the morning when you have all the time that you can probably spare to discover what the island offers. Depending on the season, your SI trip may turn out to be more pleasant than what you were expecting.

The best restaurants in New York City Chinatown

In NYC, tips, Uncategorized on March 1, 2011 at 1:00 am
A Quanjude chef slicing roasted Peking Duck

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The best restaurants in New York City Chinatown – http://ow.ly/44m2D

A rather long note to the link:

Don’t wonder aloud if you think you’ve read the article in the link from somewhere else. I’ve got 2 versions of this article that are found online, which resulted from the editing and updates I’ve been doing to the original article. Actually, this article grew out of the need to list down those Chinese-food restaurants I’ve actually been to, and have found to be among the best food places here in New York City (NYC).

I follow my taste buds and my wallet, plus my sense of what makes good quality service whenever I rate these food places I’ve been to.  Check the list itself if any of the foodplaces has been under your radar and would get you excited enough to consider visiting the place soon (or even be included in your to-do-list). I know from experience that the food in most foodplaces here in NYC has been updated to cater to American tastes. They’re actually different from the tastes I remember having when I came to China as well as those I’ve been to in the Philippines, which is a country much closer and more closely linked to China.

By the way, some regional Philippine cuisines have very strong similarities with regional Chinese cuisines. For example: lo mein or any other kind of noodle meal in Chinese cuisine has its counterpart in the Philippines – and what’s odd is that they taste very similar. And in other cases, Philippine Chinese-influenced cooking tastes better, hands down. Another example: the Philippine lumpia versus the Chinese spring rolls you’ll have in Chinese restaurants here in NYC – the Philippine lumpia is easily the winner! But we’re going too far with our topic here, as we say this.

And to be more honest about it, Chinese food here in NYC pales in taste and flavor for some reason or another. I think it’s the ingredients, including the condiments, or perhaps the way the chefs are preparing the food.  Most have that fast-food taste that you find in McDonald’s or something similar. Actually, the word is ‘bland!’ Chinese food here in NYC, with certain exceptions, is basically bland. I suspect that most of those who have been eating Chinese food here in NYC have never been to China. Ever found yourself in a lauriat where they serve Peking Duck in a Chinese restaurant here in NYC? They’re noticeably toned down in taste, just as to make the unknowing customer get convinced that [s]he is not eating something that’s cooked in its own oil. Peking Duck tastes a lot better when roasted in the oil from the melted fat that came from the duck itself….but it’s not done as often here in NYC as people are scared of confronting their own health issues as they munch on these Peking duck servings.

But nevertheless, take the courage to check these foodplaces I’ve been recommending in my list.  Begin with the noodle houses.  You want to make sure if a Chinese food place offers what can be considered ‘good quality’? Check if there are Chinese customers around who’d buy and eat food from the place. If you see them showing up there, you’ll be assured the food is really of good taste and quality. Most of these places are found in Chinatown – all the rest happened to be just visited most often by customers who are non-Chinese, hence, these places have become well-known.

The best Persian restaurants in New York City

In food, NYC, tips on February 27, 2011 at 7:30 pm
Looking south from Top of the Rock, New York City

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The best Persian restaurants in New York Cityhttp://ow.ly/43YN1

The best restaurants in New York City Chinatown

In food, NYC on February 22, 2011 at 6:15 am
Chinatown, Manhattan, New York City 2009 on Pe...

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The best restaurants in New York City Chinatown http://ow.ly/40Rhw

Reasons to visit Bryant Park, New York City

In 5th avenue, NYC, parks, scenes in life, take it as it is on February 19, 2011 at 4:30 pm
Gertrude Stein statue in NYC

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Reasons to visit Bryant Park, New York Cityhttp://ow.ly/3Yvg6

Guide to New York City’s art gallery neighborhoods

In art, art exhibits, art gallery, artists, artworks, NYC on February 17, 2011 at 7:30 pm
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Guide to New York City’s art gallery neighborhoods – http://ow.ly/3XG12

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